Struggling with conflict, distance, or disconnection in your relationship?
Better Together - a grounded way forward at your own pace, with real tools.
Better Together
by Ryan Penny
Relationships can explode overnight or quietly drift apart. Whether it’s constant tension, disconnection, or the buildup of resentment, couples often don’t know how to stop the downward spiral or start healing alone when their partner isn’t ready. Most advice oversimplifies relationships or expects both partners to be ‘on board’ from the start. This course acknowledges that sometimes, only one person is ready, and that’s okay.
Better Together is designed for couples at any stage: whether recovering from betrayal, stuck in cycles of conflict, feeling emotionally distant, or simply hoping to reconnect, this course provides tools that work.
Here's what you get:
4 In-Depth Modules - A carefully structured path to rescue, repair, refresh, and maintain your relationship. Designed to meet you exactly where you are.
19 Practical Videos - Real conversations, not lectures. Step-by-step guidance with tools you can use right away, solo or as a couple.
Printable Workbook - Deepen your self-awareness and relational understanding beyond the videos. Includes exercises, reflection prompts, and the SAFETY relationship assessment to help turn insight into action.
Lifetime Access - Go at your own pace, revisit lessons anytime, and grow through every season of your relationship. All future updates are yours at no extra cost.
Total value: $149
Today Just $95
Meet Ryan
For over 25 years, I’ve worked with individuals and couples from all walks of life, helping them navigate the real challenges that come with being in relationship.
With a background in complimentary medicine and integrated wellness, and a lifelong passion for understanding how people think, feel, and connect, I’ve spent decades developing practical tools to help relationships not just survive, but thrive.
Better Together is a culmination of that work. It’s not theory. It’s everything I’ve seen work in my practice and it's organized into a step-by-step course that gives you the clarity, skills, and confidence to grow your relationship with purpose and care.
If you’ve ever felt stuck, discouraged, or just unsure how to make things better between you and someone you love, this course is for you. You don’t have to get it all right. You just have to be willing to begin down the path of Better Together and let the building blocks and other tools guide you along the to a great, "SAFE" relationship.
Module 1
START HERE AND DON'T LOOK BACK
This module is your reset button for building something better, together.
You will clarify your goals, commit to change, and begin honest conversations, whether your partner joins or not.
START HERE
It unpacks the four essential starting points: common goals, commitment, shared ground, and clear expectations. Without these, progress stalls.
INITIAL CONVERSATION
A gentle guide to initiating honest conversation without pressure, blame, or triggering your partner. Ideal for difficult moments.
BEGINNING ALONE
Sometimes one person goes first. If that’s you, I’ll show you how to take meaningful steps without resentment, pressure, or waiting for the other to catch up.
NO LOOKING BACK
Here’s the truth: revisiting the past too early can do more harm than good. I’ll help you understand why and how to move forward without ignoring what matters.
Module 2
DEVELOP RELATIONSHIP SKILLS AND HAVE FUN
This is where we get practical. I’ll walk you through clear, easy-to-use tools to improve how you communicate, handle conflict, and bring more lightness back into your relationship. It’s all about rebuilding trust, lowering tension, and making connection feel more natural and more enjoyable.
COMMUNICATON
I’ll share a five-step process I use in sessions every day. It’s simple, respectful, and helps you express yourself without causing shutdown or conflict.
CONFLICT RESOLUTION
Discover why you argue, how to avoid resentment, and how to find agreement without needing to be “right.” Learn to defuse conflict early.
PAUSE TO CELEBRATE
When things feel heavy, we forget to enjoy each other. I’ll help you rediscover the lightness and joy that brought you together in the first place.
BETTER TOGETHER WORKBOOK
The guided questions, exercises, and reflection prompts help you process what you’re learning and apply it to your real relationship, in real time. Whether you're doing the course alone or with your partner, the workbook is like your map, it keeps the journey focused, honest, and practical.
Module 3
SAFETY TEST, PRIORITIES, AND MAINTENANCE
This module clears up the common myths that often harm relationships and replaces them with practical, grounded truths. You’ll explore what real love looks like in daily life, how to meet each other’s deeper needs, and why mindset, and not keeping score, is what truly strengthens your connection.
SAFETY Assessment
A 20-point relationship check-up measuring security, trust, affection, flexibility, and more. Identify what’s working and what’s missing.
TAKING CARE of PRIORITIES
Use the SAFETY results to apply the 6 building blocks to your relationship priorities.
MAINTAINING BETTER TOGETHER
Relationships need attention and not only when things are bad. I’ll show you how to keep things emotionally warm, steady, and strong through life’s ups and downs.
The workbook helps you turn insight into change.
Module 4
A DEEPER UNDERSTANDING OF RELATIONSHIPS
Think you know what makes a relationship work? This module challenges the common myths that quietly sabotage connection and reveals what builds lasting love. Discover why 50/50 doesn’t work, what your partner really needs, and how to give in ways that truly bring you closer. It’s the insight most couples never get but absolutely need.
THREE PITFALLS TO AVOID
Understand why people think, feel, and behave the way they do in relationships and how that insight can change everything.
FIVE TOP TIPS
Learn five essential tips to keep coming back over time, including appreciation, respect, and emotional awareness.
TESTIMONIALS
CHECK OUT WHAT OTHERS ARE SAYING
ABOUT THE COURSE
"I started on my own"
"Changing how I was handling my part changed everything. The course gave me clarity on so many things and improved my confidence, which I had been missing for so long."
Tasha
"This changed my relationship"
"The turning point was having that first honest conversation. When I committed fully without expecting anything back it sparked the very change I’d been hoping for."
Ivan
"Better communication and conflict resolution"
"This course helped us stop repeating the same arguments and actually start understanding each other."
David & Leila
YOU HAVE QUESTIONS
What makes this course different from other relationship programs?
It’s real, practical, and designed from experience.
This isn’t just theory, it’s based on over 25 years of working with individuals and couples in real-life situations. You’ll find simple, actionable frameworks that are easy to understand, honest without being harsh, and grounded in the belief that relationships improve with skill, not luck.
What results can I expect while/after taking the course?
You can expect to gain real clarity about yourself, your partner, and the dynamic between you. Many people start to feel more emotionally grounded, less reactive, and better equipped to handle conflict without it escalating. You’ll learn how to express your needs and boundaries with confidence, reconnect through honest conversation, and start building (or rebuilding) trust and intimacy. Whether you’re doing it alone or together, this course gives you the tools to move forward with intention.
Is this course only for couples who are struggling?
Not at all. While it’s incredibly helpful for couples in crisis, it’s just as valuable if things are “okay” but you want more. The course helps you reflect on your relationship habits and build a deeper emotional connection. It’s about learning how to show up better for yourself and your partner so you can grow, not just stay together.
Can't I learn all of this on YouTube?
YouTube can offer great tips but this course isn’t just information, it’s a structured process. It’s been carefully designed to guide you step by step, with tools that have been tested in real therapy sessions. The videos build on each other, and the workbook gives you space to reflect, apply, and grow. It’s not just what you learn, but how you use it that makes the real difference.
Do I need to have a partner before starting?
Many people begin this journey alone. The tools and mindset shifts you’ll gain will help you become a better communicator, a more grounded partner, and someone who invites connection rather than demands it. That kind of change often has a powerful, positive impact on the relationship even before both people are involved.
How long does the course take to complete?
It’s self-paced and designed to fit with the reality of daily life demands. It's around 4 hours of total video time made up of short, impactful video modules and a structured workbook. You can move through it in a day or two but it's advisable to take your time revisiting sections as needed. Each module includes practical exercises to help you apply what you’re learning right away. In essence, it doesn't take long but can work for a lifetime!
Should I invest in Better Together instead of couples therapy?
Think of this course as a powerful starting point or a valuable companion to therapy. It gives you structure, tools, and language to work on your relationship at your own pace, with or without a therapist. For many, it brings clarity and momentum before therapy even begins. And for others, it’s a more accessible, affordable way to make meaningful progress right now.
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Try the course risk-free. If it doesn’t feel right, you’ll get a full refund—no pressure, no hassle.
